A relationship is made up of two partners. Do not blame the other only when things do not work. Discover 9 kinds of mistakes you make and your relationships are too soon to end up.
Stay and wonder why there is no relationship and end up suffering. You're a disaster when it comes to relationships. Stay calm, to a certain extent we all believe that about us. If you have not had long-term love of love so far, it does not mean that you are condemned to loneliness for life. Stop short and analyze why each relationship has ended and you may realize that some situations are repeated.
Correct those aspects and see how changes emerge. Read 9 common reasons why relationships do not work and see if you identify with them.
1. Past failures make you reluctant when it comes to love
We all have broken hearts and suffering and it's not at all pleasant. I will not even try to sweeten the feeling! It's really hard to get over those moments and leave you a bitter taste. The tough reality is that if you do not confront the past and not overcome the suffering caused by former relationships, you will not be able to have a healthy relationship at present and you will end up in the same situation.
2. Use your past to interpret present and future
Any unpleasant experience, be it indifference, abuse, betrayal, but also others seemingly innocent, can affect your way of dealing with the current and the way you design yourself in the future with you. Do not let this happen! If you have not worked with yourself on this chapter, then it's time to start now to have a harmonious relationship. If you do not fight negative emotions, they will inevitably feel in the couple and will affect you. So take action for your future in love!
3. You are only blaming your partner
For various reasons, it is difficult for many to recognize when we are wrong. As Aristotle tells us, justice is always somewhere in the middle. If you look at the situations with maturity and attention, you will notice that in any situation there was a part to blame for you. A reaction, a replica, a behavior might have made a difference. So do not look for your excuses and assume your mistakes. Lack of assumption is one of the main reasons for separation.
4. You have unrealistic standards
Let's be honest here! I do not say to give up all your principles and to lower your claims to the minimum because that would bring in your wrong people, but the compromise is sometimes healthy. And you have defects and he will accept them if he sees you the same attitude. I do not think you want to end alone as you read these lines. So refresh a little list with criteria and see what you can cut off from there.